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Child Discipline

At 1-2-3 Magic Parenting we want to help parents raise well-behaved, happy, competent kids and put the fun back into parenting! Our parenting programs are evidence based, easy-to-learn and effective. 1-2-3 Magic can be used with children as early as 18 months through 12 years.

1-2-3 Magic is the #1 selling child discipline program in the country, and the book itself has sold more than 1.8 million copies in 22 languages.

  1. 1-2-3 Magic Family Package

    Special Price $74.69

    Regular Price: $105.78

    This brand new package includes everything your family needs to get started, including:

    • 1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2-12 (6th Edition)
    • 1-2-3 Magic DVD: Managing Difficult Behavior & More 1-2-3 Magic DVD: Encouraging Good Behavior
    • 1-2-3 Magic Starter Kit
    • 1-2-3 Magic for Kids

    Additionally, you will receive a FREE Gift: Bedtime and Nighttime Waking Laminated Quick Reference Guide

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  2. Quick Reference Guide Collection

    Special Price $49.95

    Regular Price: $71.55

    These beautifully illustrated, user-friendly Quick Reference Guides present practical strategies for nine of today’s hottest parenting topics.  

    •  Tantrums!
    •  Big Dog vs. Underdog Parenting Styles
    •  Bedtime and Nighttime Waking
    •  Apologies
    •  Whining & Pouting
    •  Room Wreckers
    •  Homework
    •  When Parents Expect Too Much
    •  Dinnertime

    This collection includes all nine laminated Quick Reference Guides in a sturdy, colorful binder.

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  3. Lending Library for Professionals & Institutions

    Special Price $202.43

    Regular Price: $249.55

    This value package provides everything you need to share all of Dr. Phelan’s popular parenting programs with your clients, colleagues and staff.

    The Lending Library for Professionals & Institutions includes:

    • 1-2-3 Magic: 3-Step Discipline for Calm, Effective, and Happy Parenting (6th Edition)
    • 1-2-3 Magic Workbook
    • 1-2-3 Magic DVD - Managing Difficult Behavior (English/Spanish)
    • More 1-2-3 Magic DVD - Encouraging Good Behavior (English/Spanish)
    • 1-2-3 Magic 4 CD Audio Program
    • 1-2-3 Magic Teen: Communicate, Connect, and Guide Your Teen to Adulthood (4th Edition)
    • Surviving Your Adolescents DVD: How to Manage and Let Go Of Your 13-18 Year Olds
    • 1-2-3 Magic for Kids: Helping Your Children Understand the New Rules
    • All About ADHD
    • Quick Reference Guide Collection (NEW!)
    • Tantrums! Managing Meltdowns in Public and Private (NEW!)
    • Tantrums! Managing Meltdowns DVD (NEW!)
    • FREE Patient Referral Cards

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  4. Tantrums! Managing Meltdowns in Public and Private Complete Package

    Special Price $27.99

    Regular Price: $34.85

    Of all the behavioral problems parents face from their children, temper tantrums may be the most upsetting as well as the hardest to manage. 

    In this value package, Dr. Phelan, provides you with a brand new perspective and a specific, straightforward management plan for this aggravating problem. If you’re fed up with useless yelling, arguing, begging and pleading, here’s a short, easy-to-learn and effective answer.

    The Tantrums! Managing Meltdowns in Public & Private Complete Package includes:

    •  Tantums! – Managing Meltdowns in Private
    •  Tantrums! DVD
    •  Tantrums! Laminated Quick Reference Guide

    This package has everything moms and dads need to bring the fear of tantrums to an end, and regain control of their own homes.

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  5. When Parents Expect Too Much

    $8.95 As low as: $7.49

    Your kids are little. Both their bodies and their brains are still growing. So, it’s important to be realistic and not set yourself and your kids up for conflict

    In the 1-2-3 Magic When Parents Expect Too Much Quick Reference Guide you will learn:

    •  What percentage of 4-year-olds lie
    •  The age at which most children stop taking naps
    •  How long a 3-year-old (who is full) can sit still at the dinner table
    •  How many times 3-7-year-olds fight per hour
    •  The surprisingly high percentage of preschoolers who are picky eaters
    •  The percentage of 3-year-olds who have daily tantrums.

    The When Parents Expect Too Much: The Dirty Dozen Quick Reference Guide describes the 12 mistaken parental hopes that cause the most trouble. You’ll want to memorize these developmental milestones so you can be fair to your kids — and to yourself!

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  6. Tantrums!

    $11.95 As low as: $9.95

    The Tantrums! Quick Reference Guide provides you with a brand new perspective and a specific, straightforward management plan for this aggravating problem. 

    In Tantrums! Managing Meltdowns in Public and Private, you will learn:

    •  The three main causes of tantrums
    •  The two goals of tantruming children
    •  The problem with distraction and reasoning
    •  The power of the “The Ten-Second Rule”
    •  A four-step process for meltdown management
    •  How to handle tantrums in public

    This Quick Reference Guide is ideal for parent and staff training.

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  7. Bedtime and Nighttime Waking

    $8.95 As low as: $7.49

    The Bedtime and Nighttime Waking Quick Reference Guide will describe in plain English how to establish a calm and orderly bedtime routine. And if the children wake up at night, you will learn how to handle the situation in a manner that keeps both you and the kids drowsy. That ensures that you all get back to sleep quickly!

    This convenient and colorful 4-page laminated guide clearly explains the following:

    •  How do you get the kids to bed?
    •  How do you get the children to stay in bed?
    •  What are the two chief reasons kids get up after “lights out”?
    •  What if the kids wake up in the middle of the night?

    Get the kids to bed—and get them to stay there!

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  8. Whining & Pouting

    $8.95 As low as: $7.49

    Children’s whining and pouting can drive some parents to distraction. There are a few youngsters who deserve academy awards for their performances! Many parents dread saying “no” to their kids—or not giving the children what they want—because of the threat of the Whining and Pouting Tidal Wave that will result.

    In the Whining & Pouting Quick Reference Guide you will learn:

    •  What causes whining and pouting
    •  What choices kids have when confronted with parental requests
    •  How adults accidentally reinforce whining and pouting
    •  How to manage your own audio and video responses
    •  How and when consequences can help.

    Whining and pouting are not really the end of the world, but actually normal kids” protests that can be managed effectively with a calm, decisive and consistent strategy.

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  9. Homework

    $8.95 As low as: $7.49

    When homework battles occur every evening, family relationships can be strained severely and the youngster in question learns primarily one thing: How to hate school work more and more.

    In the 1-2-3 Magic Homework Quick Reference Guide you will learn:

    •  How to use natural consequences when appropriate
    •  How to set up an effective daily homework routine
    •  What to avoid: Spur-of-the-Moment Requests
    •  How to do the "rough checkout"
    •  The positive negative positive technique
    •  An excellent 5-point charting system for homework

    Homework may not always be pleasant, but it should not be a daily grind. This Quick Reference Guide will help you get your children into the “Self-Starter” mode and may also revolutionize your relationship.

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  10. Apologies

    $5.95 As low as: $4.95

    All parents realize how important good social skills are, both for themselves and for their children. Parents sometimes demand that their kids apologize when the children have offended another person. In the Apologies Quick Reference Guide, we examine the wisdom of this adult strategy.

    In the Apologies Quick Reference Guide, you will learn:

    •  Why do parents ask children to apologize?
    •  What is the connection between apologies and punishment?
    •  What’s the difference between a heartfelt and a hypocritical apology?
    •  How do you “teach” children sympathy or empathy?

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